Grace Upon Grace Families: April 2025

PART 2: How to Heal After Spiritual Manipulation

When Trust Is Broken—Where Do We Go Now?

Introduction: The Wound That Bleeds Faith

I’ll never forget the day I realized my "divine opportunity" overseas was a spiritual cage. The Pastor who once prayed over me now ignored my pleas for clarity. The "brother" assigned to help me became my watchdog, twisting my words to fit their narrative.

But the deepest cut wasn’t losing the job—it was losing my trust in God’s people. If you’ve been there, you know: Spiritual betrayal doesn’t just break promises; it fractures your ability to believe.

Yet here’s the hope: God doesn’t waste wounds. Let’s walk the path of healing together.

1. Name the Sin: Call It What It Is

For months, I minimized what happened:

"Maybe I misunderstood…"
"They did help me at first…"

But healing begins when we stop sanitizing sin.

Gaslighting (making you doubt your reality) is demonic (John 8:44).
Spiritual control (using God’s name to dominate) is witchcraft (1 Samuel 15:23).
Broken covenants (false promises) grieve God’s heart (Malachi 2:14).

Your turn: Write down what actually happened. No sugarcoating.

"They used Scripture to silence me. That’s not God—that’s abuse."

2. Forgive—But Don’t Fake Amnesia

I struggled with this:

"If I forgive, do I have to trust them again?"
"Doesn’t forgiveness let them off the hook?"

God’s way is deeper:

Forgiveness = Releasing your right to punish (Romans 12:19).
Trust = Earned through repentance (Proverbs 22:3).

Practical step:
Pray this aloud:
"God, I choose to forgive [name]. I release them to Your justice. But until they prove changed, guard my heart from their influence in Jesus' name. Amen."

3. Rebuild Your Discernment Muscle

After betrayal, we either become:

Cynical ("No one is trustworthy!")
Desperate ("I’ll follow anyone who sounds spiritual!")

God’s antidote:

Test every spirit (1 John 4:1). Ask:

Does this person welcome accountability?
Do their actions match their words over time?

Keep a "Red Flag Journal" – Note patterns (e.g., "When I asked for clarity, they deflected").

My breakthrough: I saw the brother’s "concerned questions" were really interrogations. Now, I spot manipulation faster.

4. Find Your Ezekiel 34 Shepherd

After my ordeal, I avoided churches for months—until I met a pastor who:

Said, "You’re allowed to question me—I’m not God."
Opened his books (literally!) when I asked about finances.

God’s model for leaders:

They feed sheep, not themselves (Ezekiel 34:2-3).
They weep over your wounds, not their image (2 Corinthians 2:4).

Action step:
Visit a small group or new church just to observe. Don’t commit—just look for:

Humility in leadership.
Joy in the congregation.

A Prayer for the Brokenhearted

"Father, my trust is shattered. But You’re the God who rebuilds ruins (Isaiah 61:4).
Expose every lie I believed. Help me forgive without foolishness.
Lead me to safe people, you’re my Shepherd always in Jesus’ name. Amen."

Closing Scripture:
"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit."
—Psalm 34:18

Discussion Question:
"What’s the hardest part of healing for you right now?"

You Are More Than Enough

“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” — Philippians 4:13 (NKJV)

Doubt is a familiar companion for many homeschooling parents. It whispers things like, “I’m not qualified to teach my child,” or “What if I’m not doing enough?” These thoughts can feel overwhelming, but here’s the truth: You are more than enough. Why? Because God has called you to this task, and He will equip you for it. You are exactly what your child needs—because Christ strengthens you!

The Lies of Doubt

Doubt often stems from comparison, fear, or unrealistic expectations. We look at other homeschooling families and wonder why ours doesn’t measure up. We worry about gaps in our children’s education or whether we’re preparing them well enough for the future. We pressure ourselves to be perfect teachers, parents, and role models.

But these doubts are not from God. They are lies meant to steal your confidence and joy. The enemy wants you to believe that you’re not qualified, not capable, and not enough. But God’s Word tells a different story.

God’s Promise of Strength

Philippians 4:13 is a powerful reminder that our strength doesn’t come from ourselves—it comes from Christ. When we feel inadequate, we can lean on His strength to carry us through.

“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”

This verse doesn’t mean we’ll never face challenges or feel overwhelmed. It means that, no matter what we’re facing, Christ will give us the strength we need to overcome it. Whether it’s teaching a difficult math concept, managing a busy schedule, or navigating the ups and downs of parenting, His strength is more than enough.

You Are Called and Equipped

If you’ve felt God’s call to homeschool your children, you can trust that He has equipped you for the task. You don’t need a teaching degree or a perfect plan to be a great homeschooling parent. What you need is a heart willing to follow God’s leading and a reliance on His strength.

“And God is able to make all grace abound toward you, that you, always having all sufficiency in all things, may have an abundance for every good work.” — 2 Corinthians 9:8 (NKJV)

This verse reminds us that God’s grace is sufficient for every challenge we face. He will provide everything we need—wisdom, patience, creativity, and more—to fulfill the calling He has placed on our lives.

You Are Exactly What Your Child Needs

No one knows your child better than you do. No one loves them more, understands their unique needs, or is more invested in their growth and success. You are not just a teacher—you are a guide, a mentor, and a role model.

God chose you to be your child’s parent for a reason. He knew that you would be the perfect person to nurture their mind, heart, and spirit. Even on the hard days, when doubt creeps in, remember this: You are exactly what your child needs.

Practical Ways to Overcome Doubt

Here are a few ways to silence doubt and embrace God’s truth:

Pray for Confidence: Ask God to remind you of His calling and to fill you with His strength.
Focus on Progress, Not Perfection: Celebrate the small victories and remember that growth takes time.
Surround Yourself with Encouragement: Connect with other homeschooling parents who can offer support and perspective.
Meditate on Scripture: Write down verses like Philippians 4:13 and 2 Corinthians 9:8. Keep them where you can see them daily.

A Message of Encouragement

If you’re feeling overwhelmed or inadequate today, take a moment to breathe and refocus. Remember that you are not alone, and you are not failing. God has called you to this journey, and He will equip you for it.

“For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.” — Jeremiah 29:11 (NKJV)

This is God’s promise to you. He has a plan for your life and your child’s life—a plan filled with peace, hope, and purpose. Trust Him, lean on His strength, and know that you are more than enough.

Call-to-Action

Have you ever struggled with doubt in your homeschooling journey? How do you remind yourself that you are enough? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below. Let’s encourage one another to trust God’s strength and embrace His calling!

Remember, you are more than enough—because Christ strengthens you.

Discipline with Love

"The Lord disciplines the one He loves." — Hebrews 12:6

Discipline isn’t about control—it’s about guidance. It is a way of teaching, shaping, and nurturing, not a tool for domination. True discipline comes from a place of love, not frustration. As parents, mentors, or leaders, we must ensure that our discipline mirrors the way God corrects us—with love, patience, and purpose.

The Purpose of Discipline

Many people associate discipline with punishment, but biblical discipline is not about inflicting pain or fear—it is about teaching and correcting. The word "discipline" shares the same root as "disciple," which means a student or follower. God disciplines His children not to harm them, but to mold them into who He has called them to be.

Proverbs 3:11-12 says, "My son, do not despise the Lord’s discipline, and do not resent His rebuke, because the Lord disciplines those He loves, as a father the son he delights in." Just as a loving earthly father corrects his child to prevent them from harm and to help them grow in wisdom, so does our Heavenly Father. Discipline is an act of love, not anger or control.

Discipline Reflects God's Heart

When we discipline others—whether our children, students, or even those we mentor—we should do so in a way that reflects the heart of God. He does not discipline out of frustration, impatience, or a desire for revenge. Instead, He corrects us because He wants us to live in alignment with His will and experience His best for our lives.

Hebrews 12:10-11 reminds us, "God disciplines us for our good, in order that we may share in His holiness. No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it." When we discipline with love, we are helping others grow in righteousness and peace.

Correcting with Love, Not Frustration

It can be easy to react in anger when someone makes a mistake, especially when dealing with children or those under our guidance. However, the Bible warns against this. Ephesians 6:4 says, "Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." This means discipline should be fair, measured, and rooted in love rather than harshness.

Here are a few practical ways to correct with love:

Pause Before Reacting – When frustration arises, take a moment to pray and compose yourself before responding. Reacting in anger can harm more than help.
Explain the Reasoning – Correction is most effective when the person understands why they are being disciplined. Teach rather than just punish.
Offer Encouragement – Discipline should not only focus on what went wrong but also highlight the potential for improvement.
Lead by Example – Demonstrate the values and behaviors you expect from others.
Follow Up with Love – Reassure the person being disciplined that they are still loved and valued.

God’s Love in Our Discipline

God’s discipline is always redemptive. He does not abandon or reject His children; rather, He corrects them to bring them closer to Him. As we correct others, we must do so with the same heart. Our goal should be restoration, not rejection; teaching, not shaming.

By disciplining with love, we demonstrate the very nature of God’s heart—a heart that guides, corrects, and nurtures His children toward righteousness. May we always reflect His love in our words, actions, and discipline.

PART 1: When ‘Help’ Is a Trap: Why Even Christians Tempt Others in Style

The Bait: A Divine Opportunity

A few years ago, I was offered a job overseas through a Pastor and a "brother" in Christ. At first, everything seemed perfect—their kindness, their prayers, their insistence that this was "God’s plan" for me. Grateful, I stepped into what I believed was an open door from the Lord.

But slowly, things changed. Promises made in private were denied in public. Requests for accountability were dismissed as "distrust." The Pastor, though thousands of miles away, demanded control over decisions that weren’t his to make. The "brother" assigned to assist me began asking probing questions, reporting back every detail, twisting conversations to fit a narrative I didn’t recognize.

What started as a blessing felt like a spiritual spy mission—with me as the target.

The Hook: Control Wrapped in Scripture

The moment I questioned inconsistencies, the tone shifted. Verses about "submission to authority" were weaponized. My concerns were labeled rebellion. The brother, once warm, became cold—setting up scenarios to trap me in contradictions.

I realized too late: Not every helping hand is clean.
Some people don’t serve—they manage.
They don’t empower—they control.

And the most dangerous part? They do it all in Jesus’ name.

The Biblical Parallel: Wolves in Designer Clothing

Jesus warned, "Watch out for false prophets… inwardly they are ferocious wolves" (Matthew 7:15). Paul wept over those who "pretend to be apostles of Christ" (2 Corinthians 11:13). My story wasn’t unique—it was ancient.

How stylish temptation works in the Church:

The Bait: Offers wrapped in spiritual language ("God told me to help you").
The Hook: Gradual isolation from other voices ("We know what’s best for you").
The Trap: Punishment for questioning ("You’re attacking God’s anointed").

The Escape: Losing a Job, Gaining Discernment

When I refused to play along, the "brother" escalated. False accusations. Twisted words. Eventually, I lost the job—but not before God opened my eyes.

What Satan meant for harm, God used for training in discernment (Hebrews 5:14).

I learned: Not every open door is from God (Revelation 3:8).
I saw: Manipulators fear exposure (John 3:20).
I thanked Him: For the exit I didn’t choose but desperately needed.

How to Spot "Stylish Temptation" in the Church

Ask yourself:

Does this "help" come with unhealthy strings attached?
Are my concerns met with defensiveness or gaslighting?
Is there a pattern of broken promises?

If yes—run. Better to walk away from a "blessing" than to surrender to a trap.

A Warning and a Hope

To those who’ve been betrayed by people you trusted:

You’re not crazy. Spiritual abuse is real.
You’re not alone. Even David asked, "If an enemy were insulting me, I could endure it… but it is you, my equal" (Psalm 55:12-13).
You’re not without recourse. God sees. He judges justly (2 Timothy 4:14).

Final Thought

I lost a job, but I gained freedom. Some "doors" close because God is protecting you—not punishing you. Stay wise. Test every spirit. And never let anyone remote-control your faith.

"For such people are false apostles, deceitful workers, masquerading as apostles of Christ."
—2 Corinthians 11:13

Discussion Question:

"Have you ever encountered ‘spiritual manipulation’? How did God reveal the truth to you?"

Prayer:

Heavenly Father, open my eyes to unhealthy influences. Heal my wounds from betrayal, and help me trust Your leadership above all in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Balance on a String: Lessons from the High-Wire Act of Faith

Have you ever watched a performer ride a bicycle on a thin string, high above the ground? They glide effortlessly, sometimes even juggling or dancing mid-air, while the crowd gasps in awe. How do they do it? we wonder. Are they from another world?

The truth is simpler yet profound: their skill comes from dedication, practice, and courage. They’ve fallen countless times, gotten back up, and kept going until balance became second nature.

The Tightrope of Christian Life

In many ways, our walk with Christ mirrors this high-wire act. The Bible calls us pilgrims (Hebrews 11:13)—travelers passing through this world, headed for an eternal home with our Creator. But the journey isn’t always steady.

Dedication: Just as the performer commits to their craft, we’re called to fix our eyes on Jesus (Hebrews 12:2), even when distractions pull at us.
Practice: Faith grows stronger through daily reliance on God’s Word and prayer. Like a muscle, it weakens without use.
Courage: The tightrope walker ignores the chasm below; we too must press on despite fear, knowing "God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind" (2 Timothy 1:7).

When the Rope Shakes

Some start this walk with joy but turn back when storms hit—discouragement, doubt, or suffering make the path seem impossible. But God’s promise is unwavering:

"I will never leave you nor forsake you" (Hebrews 13:5).

You are not alone. The same God who calmed the sea for Peter walks with you now. When you wobble, His grace steadies you. When you fall, His hand lifts you up.

The Safety Net of Promise

The world’s tightrope has no net—but ours does. God’s faithfulness is our safety. "He who promised is faithful" (Hebrews 10:23). Your current struggle isn’t the end; it’s part of the act. Wait on Him. Trust His timing. The applause of heaven awaits those who endure (James 1:12).

Prayer: Heavenly Father, when my faith feels shaky, remind me that You’re my balance. Teach me to walk with courage, knowing You hold the rope in Jesus' name. Amen.

Call to Action:

Have you faced a "high-wire moment" in your faith? Share in the comments!
Struggling to keep balance? Download my free prayer guide.

Let Everything That Has Breath Praise the Lord

“Let everything that has breath praise the Lord. Praise the Lord!” (Psalm 150:6)

When we read the word “Let” in Scripture, it often carries a sense of divine authority and power. It is not a suggestion or a request; it is a command, a declaration that brings something into being. For example, in Genesis 1:3, we see this powerful word at work:

“Then God said, ‘Let there be light’; and there was light.”

With a single word, God spoke, and light burst forth into existence. This same authority is reflected in Psalm 150:6 when the psalmist declares, “Let everything that has breath praise the Lord.” It is as if God is issuing a divine decree, calling all of creation—every living being—to join in the symphony of praise to Him.

The Breath of Life: A Gift for Praise

The phrase “everything that has breath” reminds us that every living creature owes its existence to God. It is He who breathed the breath of life into Adam (Genesis 2:7), and it is He who sustains the life of every living thing. From the smallest insect to the largest mammal, every breath is a gift from God, and every breath is an opportunity to glorify Him.

But what does it mean for everything to praise the Lord? Does this include animals, birds, and even the natural world? I believe it does!

The Song of Creation

Have you ever stopped to listen to the birds singing at dawn? Their melodies are not just random chirps; they are a chorus of praise to their Creator. In their own way, birds declare the glory of God through their songs. Jesus Himself pointed to the birds as evidence of God’s care and provision (Matthew 6:26), and if God cares for them so deeply, how much more does He delight in their songs of praise?

The psalmist also speaks of creation praising God:

“Praise the Lord from the earth,
You great sea creatures and all the depths;
Fire and hail, snow and clouds;
Stormy wind, fulfilling His word;
Mountains and all hills;
Fruitful trees and all cedars;
Beasts and all cattle;
Creeping things and flying fowl.” (Psalm 148:7-10)

This beautiful imagery shows us that all of creation—every tree, every mountain, every creature—joins in a universal chorus of praise to the Lord. Even the wind and the waves obey His voice (Mark 4:41), and the heavens declare His glory (Psalm 19:1).

What About Us?

If the birds of the air and the creatures of the earth praise God, how much more should we, as His image-bearers, lift our voices in worship? We have been given not only breath but also the ability to know God, to love Him, and to express our gratitude and adoration in ways that no other creature can.

Yet, how often do we take this privilege for granted? How often do we go through our days without pausing to thank God for the gift of life, for the beauty of His creation, and for the salvation He has given us through Jesus Christ?

A Call to Praise

Let us respond to the psalmist’s call with joy and enthusiasm. Let us join the birds in their morning songs, the mountains in their silent majesty, and the waves in their ceaseless praise. Let us use every breath we have to glorify the One who gave us life.

“Let everything that has breath praise the Lord.”

This is not just a command; it is an invitation—an invitation to be part of something greater than ourselves, to join the eternal chorus of creation in worshiping our Creator.

What a wonderful God we serve! A God who not only commands our praise but also delights in it. A God who fills the earth with beauty and gives us the breath to sing His praises. Let us never take this gift for granted. Let us praise Him with every breath, every word, and every song.

“Praise the Lord! Praise the Lord, O my soul! While I live I will praise the Lord; I will sing praises to my God while I have my being.” (Psalm 146:1-2)

21st Birthday Miracle: Chosen Before Birth, Rescued By Grace

My 21st birthday celebration was simple—just a few friends, none of the wild excesses some expect. While others drank, I hadn’t touched alcohol that day (though I wasn’t yet walking with Christ). What happened next would reveal a staggering truth: God had been protecting me long before I knew Him—since before I took my first breath.

The Unconscious Miracle

I was riding my motorcycle at a normal speed, taking my sister’s friend home. Then came the unexplainable:

A sudden blackout—not a power outage, but I lost consciousness while still operating the bike
Supernatural navigation—somehow, we’d already passed a deadly intersection where two highways met (a collision there with any large vehicle would have been fatal)
Waking to impact—I regained consciousness just in time to see the oncoming bike, with zero seconds to react before collision

Yet the greater miracle wasn’t our survival—it was the proof of what Scripture says:

"Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart" (Jeremiah 1:5).
"He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world" (Ephesians 1:4).

Divine Rescuers at Zero Hour

At the exact moment we crashed:

The girl’s brother happened to be passing by with friends—human angels unaware
They got us immediate medical care
We walked away with only minor injuries

Science can’t explain:

How an unconscious rider navigated traffic
Why consciousness returned precisely before impact
Why help arrived at the perfect moment

A Prayer of Thanksgiving and Hope

"Heavenly Father, thank You for choosing me before time began. Thank You for protecting me when I didn’t know to ask for protection. For anyone reading this facing fear or uncertainty, remind them: You’ve numbered their days (Psalm 139:16), and no accident—seen or unseen—can thwart Your purpose. Give them eyes to see Your past rescues, and faith to trust Your future grace. In Jesus’ mighty name, Amen."

The God Who Claims Us First

This happened:
✓ Decades after He’d already chosen me (Ephesians 1:4)
✓ While I was spiritually blind
✓ Through physically impossible circumstances

That’s who our God is—His mercy doesn’t depend on our awareness. Your story of divine protection began before your first heartbeat.

Reflection: What near-misses in your life might be evidence of God’s lifelong guardianship?

From Shame to Glory: How Jesus Restored What Adam Lost

1. The Glory We Were Meant to Wear

"Adam and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame." (Genesis 2:25)

Before sin entered the world, humanity was clothed in something far greater than fabric—the manifest glory of God’s presence. Their nakedness wasn’t a problem because they were covered by divine radiance, unbroken fellowship, and perfect purity.

But the moment Adam and Eve bit the fruit, everything changed. The glory lifted. For the first time, they felt exposed—not just physically, but spiritually (Genesis 3:7). Their frantic attempt to cover themselves with fig leaves was a tragic symbol: no human effort could restore what only God could provide.

2. The Law: God’s Perfect, Unreachable Standard

God is holy (Isaiah 6:3), righteous (Psalm 7:11), and just (Deuteronomy 32:4). His Law—given through Moses—was like a mirror: it showed humanity their shattered reflection (Romans 3:20). No matter how hard they tried, no one could keep it perfectly.

But then Jesus came.

Born into a Jewish family, He submitted to every requirement of the Law:

Circumcised on the eighth day (Luke 2:21).
Presented at the Temple (Luke 2:22).
Observed Passover, feasts, and Sabbath (Matthew 26:17–19).

Yet unlike every other human, He never sinned (Hebrews 4:15). He didn’t just follow the Law—He was the Law incarnate (John 1:14). And in doing so, He exposed the hypocrisy of rule-keeping without heart transformation (Matthew 23:27–28).

3. The Cross: Where the Law Was Crucified

Here’s the scandalous truth: Jesus didn’t just fulfill the Law—He became its curse for us (Galatians 3:13).

The Law demanded a perfect sacrifice? He was the Lamb (John 1:29).
The Law required righteousness? He became our righteousness (2 Corinthians 5:21).
The Law pronounced death for sin? He took our death (Romans 6:23).

When Jesus cried, “It is finished!” (John 19:30), He didn’t just mean His suffering—He meant the old system of striving was over. The veil tore (Matthew 27:51), and suddenly, access to God’s glory wasn’t just for high priests—it was for anyone in Christ.

4. Your Divine Inheritance: Claiming the ‘Policy’ Jesus Paid For

Imagine a father who leaves his children a priceless insurance policy. The premium is paid, the benefits secured—but if the heirs never claim it, they live like paupers.

This is the tragedy of many believers.
Jesus didn’t just forgive you; He restored the glory Adam lost:

Justified: Declared righteous (Romans 5:1).
Clothed: Covered in Christ’s dignity (Galatians 3:27).
Seated: Given authority (Ephesians 2:6).

This is why Paul shouts:

“If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!” (2 Corinthians 5:17).

Conclusion: Step Into Your Robe of Glory

Today, you have a choice:

Live ashamed, hiding behind fig leaves of works, guilt, or fear.
Live clothed, walking in the identity Jesus bought for you.

Prayer:
“Jesus, I receive what You’ve done for me. I renounce shame and claim Your righteousness. Teach me to walk in the glory You restored. Amen.”

Body Building vs. Faith Building: Training for Now and Eternity

"Exercise yourself toward godliness. For bodily exercise profits a little, but godliness is profitable for all things, having promise of the life that now is and of that which is to come." — 1 Timothy 4:7-8 (NKJV)

We live in a world obsessed with physical fitness—shredded abs, bulging biceps, and peak performance. But while bodybuilding shapes the outer man, faith-building strengthens the inner man for eternity.

Let’s compare legendary bodybuilders with mighty faith-builders to see the difference—and the greater call.

1. Arnold Schwarzenegger vs. Apostle Paul

Bodybuilder: Arnold Schwarzenegger

Fame: 7-time Mr. Olympia, Hollywood icon, former governor.
Training: Relentless weightlifting, extreme discipline, high-protein diet.
Legacy: Inspired millions to chase physical strength.

Faith-Builder: Apostle Paul

Fame: Transformed from persecutor to apostle, wrote 13 New Testament books.
Training: Prayer, fasting, enduring beatings, shipwrecks, and prison for the Gospel.
Legacy: Built the early Church—his spiritual "gains" still transform lives today.

Lesson: "For though our outward man is perishing, yet the inward man is being renewed day by day." (2 Cor. 4:16)

2. Ronnie Coleman vs. David (The Giant Slayer)

Bodybuilder: Ronnie Coleman

Fame: 8-time Mr. Olympia, one of the strongest bodybuilders ever.
Training: Lifted insane weights, lived by "Light weight, baby!"
Legacy: Now battles chronic pain from years of extreme training.

Faith-Builder: King David

Fame: Killed Goliath, became Israel’s greatest king, a man after God’s heart.
Training: Worship, repentance, reliance on God in battle.
Legacy: His Psalms still strengthen believers 3,000 years later.

Lesson: "The Lord does not save with sword and spear; for the battle is the Lord’s." (1 Sam. 17:47)

3. Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson vs. Moses

Bodybuilder: Dwayne Johnson

Fame: WWE Champion, Hollywood superstar, fitness motivator.
Training: Intense workouts, military-level discipline.
Legacy: Encourages millions to push physical limits.

Faith-Builder: Moses

Fame: Led Israel out of Egypt, spoke with God face-to-face.
Training: 40 years in the wilderness, interceded for a rebellious people.
Legacy: Delivered the Law—the foundation of God’s covenant.

Lesson: "The Rock" lifts weights, but Moses moved nations by faith.

4. Modern Fitness Icons vs. Modern Faith Warriors

Today’s culture celebrates fitness influencers selling workout plans and supplements. But true spiritual gains come from faith warriors like:

Nick Vujicic (born without limbs, yet preaches Christ to millions)
Sadie Robertson (challenges youth to live radically for God)
Pastor David Platt (calls believers to surrender all for the Gospel)

Their training? Prayer. Scripture. Obedience. Sacrifice.

Final Set: Where’s Your Focus?

Bodily exercise has some profit (1 Tim. 4:8).
Godly exercise has eternal reward (Matt. 6:20).

Your Challenge:

✅ Train your body (it’s God’s temple—1 Cor. 6:19).
🔥 Train your spirit DAILY (it’s eternal—1 Tim. 4:7).

Which one needs more reps in your life?

Why Standing Firm in Your Faith Is Not Optional

"Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand." (Ephesians 6:13, NKJV)

Years ago, I sat in a job interview and openly shared my faith in God. To my surprise, I was hired—by a man who called himself "a bad Muslim who doesn't even visit the mosque."

The workplace was tense. The owner had a fierce temper—so intense that his anger sometimes forced him to take medication. Yet I worked diligently, proving my value. When he secured an agency for engraving machinery, I was given key responsibilities because he recognized my capabilities.

"And whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men." (Colossians 3:23, NKJV)

Then came the test.

The owner expanded into a new venture using those very machines: producing gold-plated religious figures. My spirit immediately resisted. As someone who serves the one true God, I knew I couldn't participate in work that would dishonor Him.

"You shall have no other gods before Me. You shall not make for yourself a carved image..." (Exodus 20:3-5, NKJV)

I told him respectfully but firmly: "These machines were meant for legitimate work. I cannot use them to create idols. If required, I will resign."

My stance shocked leadership. I didn't just refuse—I warned them that misusing these machines for idols could bring consequences.

"We ought to obey God rather than men." (Acts 5:29, NKJV)

The owner backed down—but with a catch. He allowed me to stay but hired someone else to handle both the machinery and idol business, favoring them openly. It was a clear attempt to pressure me while still benefiting from my work elsewhere.

The sting of unfair treatment was real. But I held my ground.

"The Lord is on my side; I will not fear. What can man do to me?" (Psalm 118:6, NKJV)

God's Justice Prevails

Months later, the owner approached me—unusual for him. "Can we talk?" he asked. His prized machinery agency had collapsed. The very business he had used to promote idol-making was now failing.

I could have gloated. Instead, I worked faithfully until God opened a better door for me.

Then came the full vindication:

The idol business failed completely—every gold-plated figure was returned
The machines meant for idols sat unused—their purpose thwarted
The favored employees betrayed him, even involving the police

"Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap." (Galatians 6:7, NKJV)

The Lesson for Every Believer

God honors those who honor Him - Even in workplace conflicts
"Those who honor Me I will honor." (1 Samuel 2:30, NKJV)
Compromise spreads—but so does conviction
"Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers." (2 Corinthians 6:14, NKJV)
Your stand protects others - My refusal may have kept coworkers from sin

Will You Stand?

If you're facing pressure to compromise—in business, school, or relationships—remember:

"No weapon formed against you shall prosper, and every tongue which rises against you in judgment you shall condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord." (Isaiah 54:17, NKJV)

Stand firm. Your God never fails.

Parenting with Eternal Perspective

“Do not grow weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” — Galatians 6:9 (NKJV)

Parenting is one of the most rewarding yet challenging callings in life. It’s a journey filled with sleepless nights, endless laundry, and countless moments of teaching, correcting, and encouraging. Some days, it feels like your efforts go unnoticed, and you wonder if you’re making a difference. But here’s the truth: The small, daily sacrifices you make as a parent matter. You are raising a world-changer. Stay faithful—God is working even when you don’t see the results yet.

The Unseen Sacrifices of Parenting

As parents, we often pour our hearts into our children without expecting anything in return. We sacrifice our time, energy, and resources to nurture, teach, and guide them. But in the busyness of daily life, it’s easy to feel discouraged. We wonder if our efforts are making an impact or if we’re doing enough.

Galatians 6:9 reminds us not to grow weary in doing good. Every prayer you whisper, every lesson you teach, and every act of love you show is planting seeds in your child’s heart. These seeds may take time to grow, but they will bear fruit in due season.

Parenting with an Eternal Perspective

Parenting with an eternal perspective means recognizing that your role as a parent goes beyond the here and now. It’s about shaping your child’s heart, character, and faith for eternity. While the world may measure success by grades, achievements, or accolades, God measures success by faithfulness.

Here are a few ways to keep an eternal perspective in your parenting:

Focus on Character Over Achievements: Teach your child to value kindness, integrity, and humility more than worldly success.
Pray for Your Child’s Heart: Ask God to work in your child’s life, even when you don’t see immediate results.
Model a Faith-Filled Life: Let your child see you trusting God, praying, and living out your faith in everyday situations.
Celebrate Small Wins: Recognize and celebrate the small steps your child takes toward growth and maturity.

The Power of Perseverance

Parenting is a marathon, not a sprint. There will be days when you feel like giving up, when the challenges seem overwhelming, and when you wonder if your efforts are making a difference. But Galatians 6:9 encourages us to persevere, promising that “at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”

This harvest may not come in the form you expect. It may be a heartwarming conversation with your teenager, a moment when your child shows kindness to someone in need, or a decision they make to follow Jesus. These are the fruits of your faithfulness.

Trusting God’s Timing

One of the hardest parts of parenting is waiting. We want to see results now—whether it’s improved behavior, academic progress, or spiritual growth. But God’s timing is perfect, and He is always at work, even when we can’t see it.

“Being confident of this very thing, that He who has begun a good work in you will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ.” — Philippians 1:6 (NKJV)

This verse is a powerful reminder that God is the one who completes the work in our children’s lives. Our job is to stay faithful and trust Him with the results.

A Message of Encouragement

If you’re feeling weary or discouraged today, take heart. Your efforts as a parent are not in vain. Every act of love, every word of encouragement, and every moment of patience is making a difference. You are raising a world-changer, and God is using you to shape their heart and future.

“Let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart.”

Keep pressing on, dear parent. Stay faithful, trust God’s timing, and remember that your work has eternal significance.

Call-to-Action

What are some ways you stay encouraged as a parent? How do you keep an eternal perspective in the midst of daily challenges? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below. Let’s encourage one another to stay faithful in this important calling!

Remember, you are raising a world-changer. Keep planting seeds of love, faith, and wisdom—your harvest is coming!

New Wine into Old Wineskins: Why Grace Can’t Be Contained by the Law

Introduction

"No one puts new wine into old wineskins. If he does, the wine will burst the skins—and both the wine and the skins will be ruined." — Mark 2:22

When Jesus spoke these words, He wasn’t just giving a lesson on winemaking. He was revealing a radical truth about God’s plan: The old system of the Law could not contain the new life He came to bring.

The Pharisees tried to fit Jesus’ teachings into their rigid, rule-based framework, but He made it clear—what He offered wasn’t an upgrade to the old way; it was something entirely new.

So what does this mean for us today? Are we still trying to pour the new wine of grace into the old wineskins of legalism?

1. The Old Wineskins: The Limitations of the Law

God gave the Law to Israel as a guardian (Galatians 3:24), not as the final destination. It was holy and good (Romans 7:12), but it had a purpose:

To reveal sin (Romans 3:20)
To point to the need for a Savior (Galatians 3:24)
To set a temporary standard until Christ came (Hebrews 8:13)

But the Law had limits:

It demanded perfection but provided no power to fulfill it.
It exposed guilt but couldn’t remove it (Hebrews 10:1-4).
It was based on external obedience rather than heart transformation.

The old covenant was like stiff, brittle wineskins—unable to expand with the new wine of grace.

2. The New Wine: The Life of the Spirit

Jesus didn’t come to patch up the old system—He came to fulfill it (Matthew 5:17) and establish something entirely new.

The new wine is:

Grace, not works (Ephesians 2:8-9)
A heart changed by the Spirit, not just behavior modified by rules (Ezekiel 36:26-27)
Freedom in Christ, not slavery to regulations (Galatians 5:1)

This new covenant was prophesied in Jeremiah 31:31-34, where God promised:

"I will put my law in their minds and write it on their hearts."
"I will forgive their wickedness and remember their sins no more."

The Pharisees missed this because they were still clinging to the old wineskins—rituals, traditions, and man-made rules—while God was doing something new.

3. Are We Still Using Old Wineskins Today?

Even now, many believers struggle with:

Adding extra rules to salvation (e.g., "You must do X to be truly saved")
Judging spirituality by external standards (church attendance, dress, etc.)
Living in fear rather than freedom (1 John 4:18)

But Jesus didn’t die to give us a new set of laws—He died to give us Himself.

4. How to Live in the New Wineskin

Rest in grace. Stop trying to earn what Christ has already given (Hebrews 4:10).
Walk in the Spirit. Let Him lead, not guilt or man-made standards (Galatians 5:16, 25).
Love fulfills the Law. The entire Law is summed up in love (Romans 13:10).

Conclusion: A Call to Embrace the New

The old wineskins couldn’t contain the new wine—and neither can our lives if we’re still trying to mix Law and grace.

Are you living in the freedom of the Spirit? Or are you still pouring the new wine of Christ’s grace into the old, cracked wineskins of rule-keeping?

Jesus didn’t come to give us a system—He came to give us Himself. And that changes everything.

✨ Your Turn to Respond

Reflect & Share:

Have you ever unknowingly poured "new wine into old wineskins"—like judging spirituality by external rules rather than grace?
How has God shifted you from law-based thinking to Spirit-led freedom?

Drop a comment below! Your story might encourage someone else.

⚡ "Christ has set us free for freedom!" (Galatians 5:1)

Does God Trap Us Sometimes?

The answer is both yes and no—but not in the way we might think.

A trap is meant to ensnare and destroy, but when God allows difficult situations, His purpose is always redemption, not ruin. He may let us feel stuck—only to steer us toward something far greater.

How God Used a "Detour" to Redirect Me

Years ago, while working in a factory, I was stuck in an unhealthy relationship that left me empty. Then, I met another girl—vibrant, kind, and full of life. For the first time in a long while, I felt hope.

But there was a catch: She had a boyfriend serving in a dangerous military operation. She hadn’t heard from him in months and feared he might have died. "If he returns," she told me, "I’ll have to leave you. If not, I’ll stay." I agreed, thinking this was my chance at happiness.

Months later, the news came—he was alive and coming home. Heartbroken, I did the only thing I could: I blessed her and walked away.

The Divine Strategy

At the time, it felt like a cruel twist of fate. But now I see God’s brilliant strategy:

He used her to pull me out of an unhealthy relationship—she was the fresh air I needed to break free from what was harming me.
He let me taste hope again—so I’d recognize what real love could feel like.
He closed that door—because His best was still ahead.

This wasn’t a trap—it was a rescue mission. Soon after, I met Jesus in my brokenness, and not long after, my wife—a woman of God who became my lifelong partner. We’ve built a beautiful marriage and raised two incredible daughters.

God’s Detours Are Deliverance

The Bible says:

" No good thing does He withhold from those who walk uprightly." (Psalm 84:11)

What felt like a dead end was actually God rerouting me. That girl wasn’t my destination—she was the bridge that led me out of dysfunction and into God’s perfect will.

Your Turn: Trusting God’s Process

Are you in a situation that feels like a trap? Maybe:

A relationship that isn’t right, but you’re afraid to let go?
A closed door that feels like a punishment?
A season of waiting that seems pointless?

Remember:

God’s "no" is protection.
His delays are not denials.
His detours have divine purpose.

If this speaks to you, leave a comment—I’d love to pray for you!

A Prayer for Trusting God’s Plan

"Father, thank You for being a God who doesn’t trap us but transforms our trials into triumphs. When I can’t see Your purpose, help me trust Your heart. Give me the courage to let go when You say ‘no,’ and the faith to believe that Your best is still coming. Thank You for Jesus, my Savior and Guide. In His name, Amen."

Glory to God, who makes all things beautiful in His time!

NEW HUSBAND OR OLD?

NEW HUSBAND OR OLD? – ROMANS 7 AND YOUR MARRIAGE TO CHRIST

INTRODUCTION: A DIVINE DIVORCE

"What if I told you God had to legally kill your first husband to set you free for a better love?"

In Romans 7:1-6, Paul drops a bombshell: You were once ‘married’ to the Law—but now you belong to Christ. This isn’t just theology—it’s the key to living in radical freedom. Let’s break it down.

1. THE OLD HUSBAND: MARRIED TO THE LAW

Baptized into Moses: A Covenant of Works

1 Corinthians 10:2 – Israel was "baptized into Moses" (bound to the Law).

Delivered from Pharaoh… but led to Sinai’s demands.
The Law could command, but never give life (Galatians 3:21).

BUT HERE’S THE GOSPEL SHIFT:

Romans 5:6-8 – "Christ died for the ungodly... God demonstrates His own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us."

Moses couldn’t die for you—he was just a man.
Jesus became your substitute, fulfilling the Law’s demands for you (Matthew 5:17).

2. THE DIVORCE: DEATH SET YOU FREE

The Legal Loophole

Romans 7:2-3: Marriage binds until death.
God’s Radical Solution:

You didn’t just get a divorce—your old husband (the Law) died (Romans 7:4).
How? You died with Christ (Galatians 2:19-20).

"It Is Finished—Move On Victorious!"

The Law’s demands were fully satisfied at the Cross (John 19:30).
No more cycles of guilt/shame. You’re free to leave the grave (Romans 6:4).

3. THE NEW HUSBAND: UNITED TO CHRIST

Bound to the Life-Giving Spirit

Romans 7:4: "Now you belong to Him who was raised from the dead."

Christ doesn’t demand—He supplies (John 1:16).
The Spirit writes God’s laws on your heart (Jeremiah 31:33).

Fruit flows from intimacy, not obligation (John 15:5).

Baptized into Christ: A Covenant of Grace

Old Covenant (Moses)	New Covenant (Christ)
"Do this and live"	"It is finished— move on!"
Behavior modification	Heart transformation
Leads to condemnation	Leads to liberty (2 Cor. 3:17)

4. WARNING: DON’T RETURN TO THE GRAVE

Modern Legalism: Adding rules to grace (e.g., "God only accepts you if…").
The Temptation: Acting like you’re still married to Moses.
The Truth: You’re "seated with Christ" (Ephesians 2:6)—stop living like a slave!

5. HOW TO LIVE AS CHRIST’S BRIDE

REST in His finished work (Hebrews 4:10).
WALK in the Spirit (Galatians 5:16).
LOVE fiercely—it’s the Law’s fulfillment (Romans 13:10).

✨ YOUR TURN TO RESPOND

Reflect & Share:

Have you ever felt torn between two "husbands"—trying to earn grace?
How has union with Christ changed your view of God’s commands?

Drop a comment below! Your story could unlock someone’s chains.

⚡ "Now the Lord is the Spirit; and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty." (2 Corinthians 3:17)

Giving Is a Blessing – A Testimony of Faith

When We Give to the Poor, We Lend to God – A True Story

Introduction:
The end of the year is often a time of reflection, gratitude, and giving. But what happens when you feel like you have little to spare? This is the story of how a small act of faith led to an unexpected harvest—and a powerful reminder that God sees every act of kindness.

A Season of Financial Struggle

It was the end of the year, and like many families, ours had faced unexpected expenses. With two young children and the holidays approaching, even my year-end bonus didn’t stretch as far as we’d hoped. My wife and I were carefully counting every dollar, praying for wisdom to make ends meet.

A Divine Nudge to Give

During a visit to a family from our church, we learned they were in dire need—facing hardships we couldn’t ignore. Though our own budget was tight, we felt a quiet but unmistakable prompting in our hearts: "Share what you have."

I’ll admit, hesitation crept in. "Lord, we have so little ourselves—how can this make a difference?" But faith isn’t about logic; it’s about obedience. We gave what we could, trusting that God would use it.

That’s when I remembered Proverbs 19:17:
"Whoever is kind to the poor lends to the Lord, and He will reward them for what they have done."

We weren’t just helping a family in need—we were lending to God. And if Scripture promised He would repay, we could rest in that.

The Unexpected Blessing

A few days later, a plain envelope arrived at my office. Inside was a greeting card—no return address, no signature—just a simple message of encouragement. But when I opened it further, my breath caught. There was money inside. A significant amount.

When my wife and I counted it, we were stunned. The total was nearly 22 times what we’d given days earlier. Tears filled our eyes as we realized: God had taken our "small seed" and multiplied it beyond imagination.

This wasn’t just a financial blessing; it was a divine confirmation. When we give to those in need, we aren’t just helping people—we’re partnering with Heaven.

The Lesson We Carry Forward

God Sees Hidden Acts of Love – Whether it’s a gift given in secret or a sacrifice no one else notices, He honors it (Matthew 6:3-4).
He Multiplies in His Way – Our return wasn’t just "equal"; it was abundant (Ephesians 3:20).
Giving Is Eternal Investment – Proverbs 19:17 reassures us: what we give to the poor isn’t lost—it’s stored up (Luke 12:33-34).

Closing Reflection:
Have you ever experienced a moment where giving—especially when it hurt—led to an unexpected blessing? Maybe not always financially, but in joy, peace, or divine provision? I’d love to hear your stories in the comments!

Let’s keep sowing seeds of kindness, not because we expect a return, but because we serve a God who keeps His promises. When we give to the poor, we’re not just meeting a need—we’re lending to the Lord Himself.

Train Your Life in God’s Ways

Growing Beyond Spiritual Infancy

Spiritual dependence is necessary at first—like a baby relying on parents—but God calls us to mature. The Apostle Paul writes:

"When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways."
—1 Corinthians 13:11 (ESV)

The writer of Hebrews confronts stagnation sharply:

"You have been believers so long now that you ought to be teaching others. Instead, you need someone to teach you again the basic things about God’s word. You are like babies who need milk and cannot eat solid food!"
—Hebrews 5:12 (NLT)

God’s desire is for us to "grow up in every way into Christ" (Ephesians 4:15).

Taking Responsibility for Your Spiritual Training

Scripture repeatedly emphasizes active pursuit of godliness—it’s not passive.

Train Your Mind

"Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind."
—Romans 12:2 (ESV)
"We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ."
—2 Corinthians 10:5 (ESV)

Exercise Spiritual Discernment

"Solid food is for the mature, for those who have their powers of discernment trained by constant practice to distinguish good from evil."
—Hebrews 5:14 (ESV)

Discipline Yourself for Godliness

"Train yourself for godliness; for while bodily training is of some value, godliness is of value in every way, as it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come."
—1 Timothy 4:7-8 (ESV)
"I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified."
—1 Corinthians 9:27 (ESV)

The Holy Spirit: Your Divine Coach

You’re not left to train alone. God’s Spirit empowers you:

"But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, He will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you."
—John 14:26 (ESV)
"When the Spirit of truth comes, He will guide you into all the truth."
—John 16:13 (ESV)
"Walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh."
—Galatians 5:16 (ESV)

A Call to Action

Will you commit to daily training? Start with:

5 minutes in Scripture (Joshua 1:8)
Prayerful reflection (Psalm 119:15)
Accountability (Romans 14:12)

"The path of the righteous is like the light of dawn, which shines brighter and brighter until full day."
—Proverbs 4:18 (ESV)

Question for Reflection:
"What ‘spiritual muscle’ do you need to strengthen this week? Identify one verse to meditate on and one action step (e.g., fasting from distractions, memorizing Scripture)."