God Chose YOU for This Child

 

"Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you." — Jeremiah 1:5

Parenting can be overwhelming. The weight of responsibility, the daily struggles, and the constant feeling of not being enough can sometimes make us question whether we are the right person for the job. But here is the truth: God chose you for this child. He knew exactly what He was doing when He placed them in your care.

You Are Not a Perfect Parent, But You Are the Right One

Perfection is not the goal of parenting—faithfulness is. God does not expect you to be flawless; He expects you to be faithful in the calling He has given you. Your child does not need a perfect parent; they need a loving, guiding presence. The Lord designed your child’s life and knew that you would be the best person to raise them.

Psalm 139:13-14 says, "For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made." Just as God intricately designed your child, He also orchestrated their placement in your life. This was no accident—this was divine appointment.

Trusting God to Equip You

Every parent faces moments of doubt. You may feel unqualified or ill-equipped, but God does not call without also providing. Philippians 4:19 assures us, "And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of His glory in Christ Jesus." When you lean on Him, He will supply the wisdom, patience, and strength you need for each day.

Instead of focusing on your inadequacies, focus on God’s sufficiency. He knows your struggles, and He knows your heart. He is not asking you to parent alone—He is with you in every challenge, guiding and strengthening you.

Parenting with Purpose and Grace

It is easy to compare ourselves to other parents, wondering if we are doing enough. But God did not make you to be like anyone else—He made you to be the parent your child needs. Rather than striving to meet impossible standards, embrace the grace that God gives daily.

Here are a few ways to parent with purpose and trust in God's guidance:

1. Pray Continually – Ask God for wisdom and patience in parenting decisions (James 1:5).
2. Love Unconditionally – Reflect God’s love by showing grace, patience, and understanding.
3. Teach by Example – Your child learns more from what you do than what you say. Live out the faith you want to instill in them.
4. Surrender Your Worries – Give your anxieties to God, knowing He is in control (1 Peter 5:7).
5. Celebrate Small Victories – Every moment of love, every lesson taught, and every prayer spoken is part of God’s plan for your child.

God’s Plan Is Greater Than Your Fears

No matter how uncertain you may feel, remember that God chose you because He knew you were capable. He sees your struggles, but He also sees your heart and your love for your child. When challenges arise, turn to Him. He will never leave you without the tools you need.

Your child is a gift, and so are you—to them. God’s choice was intentional, His plan is perfect, and His grace is sufficient for every moment of your parenting journey.