Does God Trap Us Sometimes?

 

The answer is both yes and no—but not in the way we might think.

A trap is meant to ensnare and destroy, but when God allows difficult situations, His purpose is always redemption, not ruin. He may let us feel stuck—only to steer us toward something far greater.

How God Used a "Detour" to Redirect Me

Years ago, while working in a factory, I was stuck in an unhealthy relationship that left me empty. Then, I met another girl—vibrant, kind, and full of life. For the first time in a long while, I felt hope.

But there was a catch: She had a boyfriend serving in a dangerous military operation. She hadn’t heard from him in months and feared he might have died. "If he returns," she told me, "I’ll have to leave you. If not, I’ll stay." I agreed, thinking this was my chance at happiness.

Months later, the news came—he was alive and coming home. Heartbroken, I did the only thing I could: I blessed her and walked away.

The Divine Strategy

At the time, it felt like a cruel twist of fate. But now I see God’s brilliant strategy:

1. He used her to pull me out of an unhealthy relationship—she was the fresh air I needed to break free from what was harming me.
2. He let me taste hope again—so I’d recognize what real love could feel like.
3. He closed that door—because His best was still ahead.

This wasn’t a trap—it was a rescue mission. Soon after, I met Jesus in my brokenness, and not long after, my wife—a woman of God who became my lifelong partner. We’ve built a beautiful marriage and raised two incredible daughters.

God’s Detours Are Deliverance

The Bible says:

" No good thing does He withhold from those who walk uprightly." (Psalm 84:11)

What felt like a dead end was actually God rerouting me. That girl wasn’t my destination—she was the bridge that led me out of dysfunction and into God’s perfect will.

Your Turn: Trusting God’s Process

Are you in a situation that feels like a trap? Maybe:

• A relationship that isn’t right, but you’re afraid to let go?
• A closed door that feels like a punishment?
• A season of waiting that seems pointless?

Remember:

• God’s "no" is protection.
• His delays are not denials.
• His detours have divine purpose.

If this speaks to you, leave a comment—I’d love to pray for you!

A Prayer for Trusting God’s Plan

"Father, thank You for being a God who doesn’t trap us but transforms our trials into triumphs. When I can’t see Your purpose, help me trust Your heart. Give me the courage to let go when You say ‘no,’ and the faith to believe that Your best is still coming. Thank You for Jesus, my Savior and Guide. In His name, Amen."

Glory to God, who makes all things beautiful in His time!